VALEDICTORY
SPEECH BY THE STUDENTS’ AUXILIARY; REV. JAMES KALAT HENRY, AT THE GRADUATION OF
THE 2018/2019 SET
The
Rector, Very Rev. Fr. Habila T. Daboh, The Vice Rector who doubles as our Class
Director; Very Rev. Fr. Julian Okafor, Our esteemed Team of Formators, Representatives
of the GOSHEMSA here present, Rev. Frs and Srs., Our Administrative staff, Our
hard working domestic staff, My dear fellow graduating Students (Reverends and
Brothers) My dear wonderful brother Seminarians, Friends and Relations of our
graduating Students, And indeed, everybody here present, good afternoon to you
all.
The
Psalmist says: “When the Lord delivered Zion from bondage, it seemed like a
dream. Our mouths were filled with laughter, indeed we were glad” (Ps. 126:1).
Like the Israelites, today, no doubt seem like a dream to my classmates and I
standing before you. Today our mouths are filled with laughter, today we are
all glad. But again, unlike the Israelites we are not being delivered from
bondage. Rather, we are filled with laughter and gladness because today, our
dreams, I would say are being fulfilled. For this, we give praise and thanks to
Him of whom nothing greater than can be conceived.
Looking
at the faces of my fellow classmates, I see smiles and expression of joy and
happiness. But I bet you, when you look deep beyond this smiling faces, there
you will discover scars of different kinds. This is because nothing comes easy
in this journey of life. We all have passed through series of brokenness and
mending until we are what we are today. What this means is that behind every
success is a proportionate sacrifice.
Today,
I am very happy leaving Good Shepherd Major Seminary. I am happy not because I
am leaving not to return again as a student, but because I am leaving
well-equipped, leaving with repertoire of experiences, in fact, I can say I am
leaving fulfilled. Standing before you, I can recall with vividness, the series
of admonitions we received from our formators and even external lecturers,
right from our days in first year Theology up to this day. We sincerely cannot
thank our formators enough for the sacrifices they have had to make, all to
make us who we are today. Please, permit me to specially appreciate our amiable
Rector, a man I prefer to call the ‘silent achiever.’ To say that we have
learnt a lot from you through these years we spent together, it will be an
understatement. But I think I can summarize it by saying you have taught us to believe
in the reality of the priesthood, through our belongingness to this
community, and today we are all gradually becoming that which you hope to see
us become.
Fr.,
on 15th October, 2018 when I and my other brothers were inaugurated
as functionaries to pilot the affairs of the school, within the students’
level, for the 2018/2019 Academic year, you handed over to me a total number of
218 seminarians. Along the line, 9 out of these numbers fell out. These
brothers of ours are no longer with us today not because they are the worst of
sinners, nor is it the case that the rest of us are more perfect than they are.
No! I see their exit as a fulfillment of Jesus’ saying, that: “Many are called,
but few are chosen” (Mt. 22:14). At this point, we pray God to grant their
hearts’ desire wherever they find themselves in this journey of life. Fr. I
stand here with mixed feelings to say to you that out of the 209 left, today,
24 are bowing out for good. Frs. It is easier for me to say that I and my
classmates are walking out or walking away. But that will of course defy the
Igbo adage says: “No matter how tall an Okra tree grows, it cannot be taller
than its owner.” Bearing this in mind, dear Frs., today we are bowing to you in
appreciation for all you have done in our lives. Indeed, our four years on this
compound was not all rosy, because you surely exercised to the fullest, the
words of Proverbs 13:4. Today, we say thank you to you for not sparing the rod,
thank you for not spoiling us. In return, we promise never to disappoint you
and the Church at large.
To
you my classmates, permit me to begin by reminding us of that first pull, I
mean that first voice we individually heard, to which we responded, and today
we are here. I ask; do we still listen to that voice in the midst of this noisy
world, characterized by so many strange voices that keep calling out to us? I
beg of you brothers, as we go out, kindly be careful so as not to make mistakes
that we will spend the entirety of our priesthood trying to correct. Brothers,
we no doubt have had series of histories together; the sweet, the sour, the
bitter, in fact, the litany is endless. I beg you to see all these as the
ingredients that spice up human life.
Dear
Reverends and brothers, today is unarguably one of the best days of our lives,
in fact, I will not be surprised if some of us nick-name it ‘world freedom
day.’ As a matter of fact, by way of true confession, myself I sincerely can’t
recall the number of times I longed to see this day, especially those moments I
will jump out of bed in the middle of the night, rushing to go and see Fr.
Agba, only to realize it was in a dream that he called me. Be it as it may,
permit me to tell you this bitter truth; as we are all joyfully packing and
checking out of the Seminary today, we shall one day long to come back here,
and this is not magic, but simply because “No place like home!” when we go out
there and discover how noisy the world is, we shall long to come back home!
When the demands of the ministry gets high out there, Reverends, I bet you, we
shall long to come back home! But you know what, brothers? When these feelings
begin to becloud us, our only source of solace will be the Blessed Sacrament.
And so, we pray God to be the focus of all our actions, through Christ our
Lord.
To
you my dear and wonderful brother seminarians, standing before you this
afternoon, I must admit that I am bleeding deep within me, especially looking
at you my dear brothers, and knowing that this is my last address to you both
as your leader and as one of you. In truth, dear brothers, I will miss you, but
I promise to always remember you in my prayers. Leading you through these
moments has taught me a lot on leadership and community living. I cannot thank you enough for the moments we
shared together, and as I leave you, my last words to you are: “To succeed in
this formation, make yours the habit of doing the right thing at the right
time. If it is time for you to pray, pray and don’t do any other thing! If it
is time for you to read, read and don’t do any other thing! If it is time for
you to play, play and don’t do any other thing! If it is time for you to eat,
eat and don’t do any other thing!” He who has called you, will surely do it for
you because he is faithful (1Thes. 5:24). A special thanks to my dear brothers
who assisted me in this office; Reuben Shaba and Danbako Zakaria. I sincerely
appreciate your love and friendship.
To the representatives of the ALUMNI here
present, thank you for finding us worthy enough to be initiated into the rank
of the elders of this noble institution, and thank you also for this
initiative, and for choosing to begin with the class of 2019, for it will go a
long way to inspire our younger brothers to want to be alumni, someday like us.
To
our parents, relations, friends and the members of our worshiping community
here present, who have come to share in our joy, as we thank you for all you
have been to us, and the various roles you have played in our formation through
these years, we pray God who knows your needs to graciously grant them, through
Christ our Lord. Allah ya taimake mu!!!
With
this speech, I Reverend James Kalat Henry, on this day 8th June, 2019,
cease to be the 1st student auxiliary of Good Shepherd Major
Seminary, Kaduna. I now invite Reuben Shaba to come take the mantle of
leadership from me, to serve in this capacity until a new auxiliary emerges,
while Danbako Zakaria assumes the position of the second auxiliary.